The American Film Institute says it's the 2nd greatest film of all time, behind only "Citizen Kane."      Today is the 45th anniversary of the 1972 premiere of "The Godfather."    The Best Picture Academy Award winner is one of those polarizing movies - men love it, live by it and quote it ... women, for the most part, are not fans. So much so that Tom Hanks had to offer up an explanation to Meg Ryan in "You've Got Mail."